Hey, Lovies!
This will be 2019 in a flash!
The Winter season is upon us and soon it will be spring. Before you know it, another year is gone.
There are many things to do and we all have busy lives.
But the care of your vajajay is important and should never be overlooked.
So, as you take the time to get this info from early, you will surely get the good stuff.
The tips given here are things I have been doing. Some I started recently but some, I have been doing for decades.
I have learned a lot from my mom and sisters. Others I have learnt from reading books and studying gynecology.
I am sure you may have been exposed to a few of the tips in this guide already too. But there is a lot more you will learn today.
So, what is so special about the vajajay?
It is the cookie!!!
It is the greatest prized possession women have!
Men have lost their lives over the cookie!
Wars have been fought because of the cookie!
Men have climbed hills and mountains and walked through valleys and plains to get to the cookie!
Men have lost nights of sleep and have written books about how they long for and need the cookie!
Obviously, YOUR cookie is the ultimate deal!
But, how do you feel about your cookie?
Before the men can even have a say, YOU need to feel special about the cookie.
Your vajajay is like a gateway! It is the most precious gift (and perhaps weapon) the Creator gave to the female species.
Anatomically, it is the entrance to the hub of the uterus that brings forth a child into this world.
It is the gateway to the incubator of the human race! We would not exist if it wasn’t for the cookie.
The vajajay is the epicentre of pleasure for the most enjoyed leisure activity known to man.
Nothing can take its place. Not even football!
With all that said, I trust that you are in full excitement mode for these tips.
Delicate care for delicate places
Your cookie is a delicate treasure and needs the right care all the time.
It has its own self-sustaining eco-system which demands an accurate balance around the.
It is your responsibility to keep the quality of the cookie fresh always.
Your actions determine if the scale is balanced or not.
What you learn today will act as a boost to your yoni to function at its best.
So, without further ado, Here are my 14 tips for the ultimate Vajajay care
Tip # 1. Do ‘cool and sexy’ shaves
No one likes to walk through a wild, bushy forest.
So too, men don’t like to see the rosy area looking like bushy park central.
You should keep the hair low and well groomed.
For my shaves, I often pre-treat the mons pubis (the upper hairy section) with a mild spray of misted peppermint and ylang-ylang essential oils.
A few drops of these oils go a long way.
The peppermint has a cooling, anti-bacterial effect for lowering the risk of folliculitis (hair follicle infections).
I love the fragrance of the ylang-ylang which gives a beautiful smell that gets me in a sexy, relaxed mode.
Then I do a cute style as I shave.
Styling takes practice.
So, choose 1 or 2 simple patterns (like a heart or a diamond) and perfect it.
When you feel comfortable, try other patterns.
I am sure your beau will find it cute and sexy too.
Be mindful that tight- fitted clothing over your mons pubis increases the chance of you getting in-grown hairs. So, you may have to re-think those skinny jeans and super-tight spanks.
Tip # 2. Go for cotton panties
Your vajajay and its hairy section requires ventilation.
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
If you close it up all day with non-porous, heat producing, synthetic materials, the excess moisture is sure to let the bad bacteria in the region fester and grow.
That is sure to turn out into an inky, stinky situation.
That is unacceptable!
I hate it when I go in a restroom stall after a random chic and all I can smell is the victory of those odor-causing bacteria over their moisture-producing sweat glands.
The cotton fabric is known to provide the best ventilation for your genital region.
Ventilation is important for the self-cleaning effect of your vajajay to work.
A lack of air causes the area to feel warm. This triggers the sweat glands to secrete sweat to cool the area down. The sweat then has no way of drying.
So, the bad bacteria from your cookie and the anus starts their own party. They go for the moisture and rapidly multiply.
Then, they emit strong, pungent, repelling odors nobody likes.
Down there basically smells like a sweaty, deodorant-less ARMPIT!
Please lovies! Do not let this happen to you!
Go for the cotton panties ONLY.
Buy whatever style you want! Just ensure it’s cotton!!!.
If want something with a lil’ bit of stretch for fitting and rebound, use no more than 10% spandex. Leave the next 90% for the cotton.
I can tell you that the ugly ones aren’t sexy. But, they are usually the best ones.
The industry has been catching up with the market demands, so some good v-cuts and thongs are being released in full range cotton fabric.
Awesome, sexy, and right!
Tip # 3. Keep it sexy
believe it or not, your mood tends to be congruent with what you wear.
If you keep your panty styles chic and sexy you will feel confident throughout the day.
With that said, go through your stock and toss out the ones that spell ‘boring’.
Replace them with some cute cuts that are pleasant to your eyes (and his).
You deserve the boost for your style and likes.
Men like to see when their women feel confident and comfortable in their own bodies too. It’s one of those turn-him-on tools.
Tip # 4. Change undies after 12-24 hours per day
Doing this is dependent on your work shifts and how busy your days will get.
but if you must, take your feminine pouch to the restroom when going to take a leak.
When you wear your undies beyond 24 hours, the shedding dead cells has the potential to start their own funky party and cause odors in your rosy park.
When the air hits those cells, the stink will get real.
Therefore, if you must, please change while at work.
Like Nike says, “JUST DO IT!”
it takes less than 3 minutes.
your vajajay will thank you for it.
ensure to dispose of the stale undie properly.
Tip # 5. Wash those undies separate and twice
Double washes are my pet peeves and I have been doing it for the longest while.
I want to ensure there is no microscopic trace of soilage or bad germs.
Washing them separate from other clothing ensures there is no transfer of bacteria or soilage between regular clothes and undies.
I have been using fabric softeners with my undies for a long time and have never had any issues with it.
I have tried washing without the softener and I didn’t like the harsh feel of the cotton material. Hence, I am still using fabric softeners.
If you have sensitive skin, I recommend that you skip the softener.
As a general rule, just use a hypoallergenic soap for underwear laundry.
Tip # 6. Annual Underwear Investments
This is for every-day-use panties.
After a whole year of washing, the cotton quality will reduce. Hence, you want to keep at your best with a new set every year.
Furthermore, there are some bacteria still living on them even though they are washed ever so often.
For those sexy lingerie ones, you should change them after a while too.
If you haven’t worn them for a while, give them a rewash for freshness.
You may feel like popping them on soon to give your beau a turn-on.
Tip # 7. Make it smell really rosy
Using mild perfumes tends to have an aphrodisiac effect. This is good for your overall sexual health and confidence.
I like to spray some perfumes on my undies, just over the part which covers the mons pubis.
This is like putting a deodorant on your armpit.
Therefore, if my sweat glands need to be activated (which they rarely do) the area will still smell good.
The alcohol in the perfume also has a mild anti-bacterial effect to keep those odor-causing bacteria at bay.
By doing this, I am confident no odors will form.
Do not spray anything on that delicate rose. you may end up killing it! emoji hahahaha.
The fragrance on your panty will diffuse and aromatise the entire area, so you will have no worries.
Tip # 8. Use scentless, hypoallergenic wipes after pee and poo
Cleaning after you ‘go’ is a must.
You cannot afford to not clean! You will regret it if you don’t.
Using wet wipes after tissue paper is acceptable. They can remove the residue of body waste.
All you need to do is a single wipe. From front to back.
Do not insert into your cookie! Just do a simple wipe.
Tip # 9. Stay away from douching
For a gynaecologist, douching is a big NO-NO!!!
Wshing out your vagina is a set-up for a roller-coaster of health problems.
But, feminine washes could be used if they are mild, scentless and hypoallergenic and used correctly. They are just for a quick cleansing of the outer rosy vulva.
They are for skin, not your inner lady bits!
Never insert soaps inside the vajajay!
You should know that a feminine wash nor douching will not cure an odor problem if you have one.
Neither can they maintain pH and all the other things good cents benefits promised. They are cleansers for just that – CLEANSING. Full stop.
Tip # 10. Use a nicely scented body wash
With all these tips, you should not need anything more to wash your rosy vulva.
It will be kept clean and running with those tips.
However, to keep the rest of the body smelling fresh, use a nice body wash.
The fragrance will aromatise everywhere.
That way, you never have to worry about any sensitivity reactions or changing your rose’s pH balance because of douching.
Tip # 11. Get treatment early for any abnormal discharge
Normal vaginal secretions are usually clear and odourless. However, this can change as your menstrual cycle progresses.
Once you know what your usual secretions look like, deviations could mean an infection or some other gynecological condition.
Abnormal discharges tend to have abnormal colours and odors and textures.
Other symptoms for concern include burning, itching, redness and bumps or warts.
Once there is an abnormal treatment, you need to see your doctor as you may need prescribed medications.
Douches won’t help you!
Medication treatment will protect you from any future harm.
Tip # 12. Mild Moisturizers for firm skin and sexy looks
This one is personal. I use moisturizer (only mild, unscented and hypoallergenic ones) on my rosy section.
Yes, I am young, but my rose petals feel nicely firm and defined.
They’re kinda like nicely toned biceps.
The winter period can be freezing cold or cooler depending on which country you are in.
But whichever you experience, apply a small tad of moisturizer to the rosy vulvar skin and it will keep the collagen firm and full of volume.
It keeps the rosy petal from wilting up and looking flabby.
The firmer your lady bits, the better your stimulation. You know what I mean!
BTW, I am yet to have allergic reactions whilst moisturizing so that’s comforting.
Tip # 13. drink lots of water to keep your rose hydrated
Nope, this is not a cliché.
Staying hydrated with plenty water does work wonders in all areas of one’s life.
It keeps the immune system at its optimal peak performance.
Generally, water helps in the detox process occurring in our liver, kidneys, lungs and skin.
Water preserves your vulvar skin from dehydration, breakage and premature aging during the winter season when it is most likely to get dry.
The skin over your rosy section needs the hydration to keep it tight and firm.
No one likes to see a wilting rose. That is unattractive.
Well, it’s the same thing with your rosy section.
Don’t let your aging process occur faster than it needs to be.
Get hydrated to prevent that!
You are exempt though if you have heart or kidney failure where water restrictions are a must.
Go on a 21-days challenge to get your hydration game up. Watch your rosy yoni come back to life with better vibrancy.
Your body will thank you for it. So too will your beau.
For the fun of it, I must say that the vajajay really does look like a flower. At least to the artistic eye.
The rose and orchids are commonly portrayed. But I like the roses.
I found these photos here in a simple google search that some artists have shared with the world.
Tip # 14. Start using that peppermint
Ever since I learnt about its health benefits, I can’t seem to put the peppermint down.
I have peppermint-infused water 24/7!
I did a post about the benefits of peppermint too. You should definitely check it out later.
But one thing you must know, is that peppermint calms your nerves and get you relaxed.
Regarding your vajajay, it will do a few things.
First, it keeps the cookie smelling fresh.
Second, it keeps your blood sugar levels in check so that there is no substrate for yeast to grow and fester.
Isn’t this lovely?!
Ninety-five percent of women will get at least one vaginal yeast infection in her lifetime.
Wouldn’t it be lovely if you could drop your chances of getting one to zero?
The choice is yours. You are free to give it a shot.
I did, and I am yet to regret it.
Tip # 15. Keep eating those fruits and veggies
There is not much research into this but there are lots of anecdotal accounts by women across the world of how they smell foods they consume in their secretions.
I used to get this often. Whether it was chocolate, coffee, fish, pineapples, berries, the scent would be left off in my rosy secretions.
I was so turned off by the especially pungent scents.
But, I solved this with all the hygienic tips in this post.
Therefore, if you have a similar odor problem and want your rose to smell fresh and lovely, eat the foods with pleasant scents.
Get those fruits and veggies in!
Then couple this with all the above hygienic tips.
I guarantee you, that you will not have an odor problem to deal with any time soon.
So, there you have it! Fifteen great tips for the ultimate vajajay care.
Once you put them into practice, you will be on your way to having a cookie you are proud of!
Go girl! Use it to your advantage.
Share this guide will all your besties and lovies and go on to a sexier life in 2019!
Here’s to a sexier vajajay!
XOXO